They frequently cancel plans or prioritize other commitments over spending quality time with you, showing a lack of commitment. 

They exhibit controlling behavior, wanting to dictate your choices and limit your independence, which undermines your personal freedom. 

They are highly critical and constantly put you down, affecting your self-esteem and making you feel unworthy of love and respect. 

They have a history of dishonesty and deceit, frequently lying or hiding things, which erodes trust and complicates your relationship. 

They ignore or dismiss your feelings, showing a lack of empathy and understanding, which can create emotional distance and dissatisfaction.